to be continued ..

As i was on the skytrain today, something struck my mind for the first time. Okay, i lied, maybe not the first time but something different came up. Till this date, i don't understand the whole concept of the guy "always" being a jerk. From my stand point, i'm a strong believer in the whole nice guy theory. The nice guy doesn't necessarily always finish last, reason being is that he's nice, girls like him as that guy, that go to guy, maybe not he's not boyfriend material, but he's definitely not last. Girls go for asshoes. Why? Because they're more dominant, what kind of girl would want a nice guy who's always a push over, a guy that's always trying to impress her. Impressing a girl, will only work for short period, until she realizes that. What good is it going to do, when that particular nice guy is always on the go, trying to get this girl's attention? You're thinking, not a lot, maybe no attention from her whatsoever. We're on the right page, maybe a little bit, due to the fact he's buying her gifts and giving her rides all the time

So, as time goes by, this guy is probably gonna get heartbroken real fast. Obviously he's not playing by the rules, breaking everyone of them. Anger comes along... Bam, meet mr.asshoe. Now tell me who's the asshoe now? The nice guy, obviously. That guy whom used to be the sweetest boy alive, is now an official asshoe. Take a guess, it was all because of that one girl.
Believe me, when i say a girl turns a guy into an asshoe, it's quite true. There's too many scenarios and possibilities how it can be true, but ya'll know the jist of it. Quite frankly, there are too many "asshoes" out there today, it's kind of sad seeing how this transition becomes because who really wants to be an asshoe? It all started with the mindset of i'm going to be the sweetest thing alive, next thing you know, he's bitter as fuck. Now really, there's no way of changing how a person thinks, you might be able to influence them, but how they think is totally up to them. I was speaking to one of my female mates, and she pointed out that "a girl symbolizes the ultimate goal for a guy." True, if you asked me. In all honest words, what kind of girl would want to chase a guy? It's always the other way around, and that's how nature works, let's exclude those minor exceptions of "how you got your boyfriend" instead of "how you got your girlfriend." Now think again, do you really think a girl turns a guy into an asshoe?



This is entirely bias, and i'm speaking on my point of view, but if you think of something that contradicts this whole argument, then throw a comment at me.

EXCUSE THE TYPOS, I'M WAY TOO LAZY TO EDIT.